It is our actions that determine our confidence and interest. When we endorse our thoughts, we are actually teaching the mind to make it a habit. Once the pattern is set, the habit becomes a way of life.
So you could actually change your life by endorsing those very habits which seem to pull you down. If you feel that you are not able to find any interest in your life, then try to change your habit. Do something different every day and the result is seen immediately.
Often we are ridden with the doubts of our failures and we fail to see the success we have achieved. Our life would be different if we learn to count every blessing that we get and treasure them to release the wings of happiness at a later date. Instead we mull over our problems and accumulate anxiety and worry in a box of thoughts which later becomes the Pandora’s box and all our insecurities are out in the open very soon. So the next step to change our life is to acknowledge and accept and make it a habit to do it.
Most of our experiences in life teach us to be patient and not to be hasty. Often we say or do things in a huff which really does not pay well. Immediate anger should be curbed and one has to pause, think and then speak. This will ease everyone, one would be very comfortable with you and soon you would have changed your life completely.
Life would be a garden of roses if there are no mistakes in the world. But mistakes do happen and one only has to ensure that the mistakes are not repeated. It is alright to make a mistake but really not good to repeat the mistake. When one does not repeat a mistake the situation and the reactions are different and one learns how to do this in style.
Life is a gift and one has to treasure it. Small incidents and instances should not deter one from valuing the tree of life. Life could be better, more enjoyable and a change arena if one realizes that it is up to us to determine the quality and if we wish to change life then we have to have a lifetime change.